Saturday, August 06, 2005

Miss U Message

Got this from a friend's friendster's post...sharing it here...

MiSs U Message: Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think that he/she doesn't miss u? Almost everyone has.. Read on..

Missing someone is terrible but at the same time, a sweet feeling. U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her. Thinking if he/she ever cares about u. Rushing to the phone once it rings, hoping that it's him/her. Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of her/him missing the final episode of your favourite show.

Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u went out together. Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again, talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future. Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online. When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not return your page, u will start worrying if he/she is okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess. It exposes u to loneliness. It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness. Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her. But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. U feel as if u are being left alone.

So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss u. Don't let the feeling of missing someone becomejealousy or paranoid. If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other party know. if u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait.

5 Comments:

Blogger juneberry said...

like what i commmented on Shirley's blog..

in terms of romantic love... if you dun really reciprocate the other party's feelings.. betta dun say "i miss you" to him or her... it'll just make things worse... it'll be like leading him/her on..

one does need to be cruel to be kind

10:49 AM  
Blogger Sunshine said...

oh yeah...this i agree..and also if u think the other party wouldn't reciprocate ur feelings...u better dun say that to him/her as well..it'll prob scare the other party away...haha

1:33 PM  
Blogger egeus said...

what if him/her tells you he/she doesn't miss you?

i thought different ppl have different feelings and emotions attached to others, so most of the time, they don't feel exactly the same level as you feel for them. Neither will they feel the significant of you missin' them.

it'll be u feel worse than how you felt before!

it doesn't always pay to be frank. sometimes it backfires. so, must be careful of what you say la... sighs

11:38 PM  
Blogger Sunshine said...

to shirley: oh...haha..well...i miss....
YOU!
no need to disclose here coz its immaterial...hahaha...

to egeus: i totally agree with you....it might turn out to be worse...so sometimes its better not to say anything....erm...u sound like u're toking from personal experience??

8:47 AM  
Blogger egeus said...

yahyah. deep down i m jaded. emotionally fragile. never really recover from those episodes in life. haha

8:14 PM  

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