How you respond determines how the situation turns out to be...

I vaguely remember an email which talks about how responding differently in the same situation can lead to different results of the situation....

I finally can appreciate this....

Its really up to individuals to respond positively so that the situation don't turn out to be bad....

Sometimes its good to just give the whole situation a second thought, and not let your negative emotions control you...to think the whole thing through again, and how you can view it with a more positve mindset...

it may just take that few sentences of negative comments arising from the negative emotions to destroy and mess up the whole situation....

it may also take that few sentences of positive comments arising from positive thinking to build up and improve the whole situation....

so next time before you let negative emotions get the hang of you, think twice...